Community and Relationships

What Does It Mean to Love Your Neighbor?

According to the Tanakh — What YaHoWaH Actually Said

Teacher: Sarah-Naviah Lewi  ·  Tikkun HaPeretz Teaching Library

All quotations are taken from the King James Version (KJV), which is in the public domain. The name YaHoWaH (YHWH) has been restored in place of LORD throughout this teaching.

Opening

You Have Heard It Before. But Where Did It Come From?

If you grew up in church, you heard this phrase regularly. Love your neighbor as yourself. It was quoted from the pulpit. It was put on bumper stickers. It was used to teach children to be kind. And there is nothing wrong with any of that. Loving your neighbor is a good thing.

But here is the question most people never ask: where did that command come from? If you asked the average churchgoer, they would probably tell you Jesus said it. And technically, yes, he quoted it. But he did not originate it. That command comes from the Torah. It was given by YaHoWaH through Moshe, centuries before Jesus walked the earth.

And when you go back to where it actually came from, you find that it is richer, wider, and more demanding than the way it is often taught. Let us look at it honestly.

The Source

The Original Command in Vayikra (Leviticus) 19

The command is found in Leviticus 19, which is one of the most practical and detailed chapters in all of Torah. It covers how to treat the poor, how to deal honestly in business, how to care for the deaf and blind, how to judge fairly, and how to treat the stranger among you. It is a sweeping vision of what a community that honors YaHoWaH actually looks like in real life.

Right in the middle of all that practical instruction, YaHoWaH says this:

Vayikra (Leviticus) 19:18
"Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am YaHoWaH."
The Hebrew word for neighbour here is re'a (רֵעַ). It means a companion, a fellow, a person close to you in community. In context, it refers to fellow Israelites, the people of the covenant. Notice how the verse is framed. Before the positive command to love, two things are forbidden: taking revenge and holding a grudge. YaHoWaH knew that love is impossible where bitterness lives.

That closing phrase, "I am YaHoWaH," is not decorative. It appears throughout Leviticus 19 like a seal on every command. It means: this is who I am, and this is the standard I set. When He says love your neighbour, He is not making a suggestion. He is declaring what He expects from people who walk in covenant with Him.

The Stranger

The Command Does Not Stop at the Covenant Community

This is where it gets even more powerful. Only sixteen verses after commanding love for the neighbour, YaHoWaH gives the exact same command again, this time about the stranger.

Vayikra (Leviticus) 19:33-34
"And if a stranger sojourn with thee in your land, ye shall not vex him. But the stranger that dwelleth with you shall be unto you as one born among you, and thou shalt love him as thyself; for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt: I am YaHoWaH your God."
The Hebrew word here is ger (גֵּר), meaning a foreigner or sojourner dwelling among the people. The command is explicit: treat the stranger as one born among you. Love him as yourself. The reason YaHoWaH gives is personal and historical. You were strangers in Egypt. You know what it feels like to be on the outside. Let that shape how you treat the person in front of you.

This is not a minor addition. YaHoWaH chose to use the exact same language for the stranger as He used for the neighbor. Both are to be loved as yourself. The command is not limited to people who look like you, pray like you, or share your background. It extends to the person who is outside your community but is living alongside you.

Devarim (Deuteronomy) 10:18-19
"He doth execute the judgment of the fatherless and widow, and loveth the stranger, in giving him food and raiment. Love ye therefore the stranger: for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt."
YaHoWaH Himself loves the stranger. He feeds and clothes the foreigner who has nothing. The command to love the stranger is rooted in the character of YaHoWaH Himself. We love the stranger because He loves the stranger.
The Context

What Love Actually Looks Like in Leviticus 19

One of the most important things to understand about this command is that it does not stand alone. Leviticus 19 surrounds it with specific, concrete instructions. The love YaHoWaH is commanding is not a warm feeling. It is a way of behaving. Look at what comes directly before and after the command to love your neighbor:

Vayikra (Leviticus) 19:9-10
"And when ye reap the harvest of your land, thou shalt not wholly reap the corners of thy field, neither shalt thou gather the gleanings of thy harvest. And thou shalt not glean thy vineyard, neither shalt thou gather every grape of thy vineyard; thou shalt leave them for the poor and stranger: I am YaHoWaH your God."
Loving your neighbor means leaving something for them. It means not consuming everything you can consume. It means building the needs of others into how you manage your own resources.
Vayikra (Leviticus) 19:13-14
"Thou shalt not defraud thy neighbour, neither rob him: the wages of him that is hired shall not abide with thee all night until the morning. Thou shalt not curse the deaf, nor put a stumblingblock before the blind, but shalt fear thy God: I am YaHoWaH."
Loving your neighbor means paying people what you owe them, on time. It means not taking advantage of someone whose limitation makes them vulnerable. It means doing right even when no one is watching, because YaHoWaH is always watching.
Vayikra (Leviticus) 19:15-16
"Ye shall do no unrighteousness in judgment: thou shalt not respect the person of the poor, nor honour the person of the mighty: but in righteousness shalt thou judge thy neighbour. Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people: neither shalt thou stand against the blood of thy neighbour: I am YaHoWaH."
Loving your neighbor means judging fairly regardless of wealth or status. It means refusing to gossip. It means not standing by when someone's life or livelihood is threatened. YaHoWaH equates talebearing with standing against someone's blood. That is how seriously He takes the words we speak about others.
Love, as YaHoWaH defines it in Leviticus 19, is not primarily a feeling. It is a practice. It shows up in how you do business, how you speak, how you judge, how you pay your workers, and how you treat the person who has nothing.
More From the Tanakh

The Prophets and Writings Confirm It

The command to love your neighbor was not limited to the Torah. The prophets and the wisdom writings of the Tanakh return to it again and again, always rooting it in the character and commands of YaHoWaH.

Micah 6:8
"He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth YaHoWaH require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?"
Three things. Do justly — make things right between people. Love mercy — not just practice it, but love it, value it, want it for others. Walk humbly with YaHoWaH — keep yourself small and Him large. This is what loving your neighbor flows out of. It is not self-generated. It comes from walking closely with the One who loves justly and mercifully Himself.
Mishlei (Proverbs) 3:28-29
"Say not unto thy neighbour, Go, and come again, and to morrow I will give; when thou hast it by thee. Devise not evil against thy neighbour, seeing he dwelleth securely by thee."
When you have the ability to help right now, do not delay. The person standing in front of you is trusting you. Do not plan harm against someone who lives in peace beside you. Loving your neighbor means being trustworthy and immediate with your help.
Zechariyah (Zechariah) 7:9-10
"Thus speaketh YaHoWaH of hosts, saying, Execute true judgment, and shew mercy and compassions every man to his brother: And oppress not the widow, nor the fatherless, the stranger, nor the poor; and let none of you imagine evil against his brother in your heart."
Notice who YaHoWaH lists as the protected: the widow, the fatherless, the stranger, the poor. These are the people most easily overlooked, most easily taken advantage of. YaHoWaH commands not only right action toward them but right thinking. Do not even imagine evil against your brother in your heart. Love begins in the mind before it ever shows up in behavior.
Honest Examination

How Christianity Handles This Command and Where It Diverges

Many people coming to this teaching will know this command primarily through what Jesus said about it in the NT writings. He quoted Leviticus 19:18 directly and called it one of the two greatest commandments alongside Deuteronomy 6:4-5. On that much, we agree completely. The command is real, it is binding, and it is central.

But there are two places where the Christian handling of this command deserves honest examination.

The Parable of the Good Samaritan

In Luke 10, when a lawyer asked Jesus "And who is my neighbour?", Jesus responded with the parable of the Good Samaritan. The story is used to teach that "neighbor" means anyone who needs help, regardless of background or relationship. Many Christians use this to extend the command to all humanity universally.

That is not a wrong spirit. YaHoWaH does command care for the stranger, as we have seen clearly. But there is a distinction worth noting: the Tanakh's definition of neighbor and the definition of stranger are kept separate for a reason. The neighbor is the person in covenant community with you. The stranger is the foreigner dwelling among you. Both deserve love. But the covenant community carries specific responsibilities that do not automatically extend to all of humanity indiscriminately.

The broader principle, care for those in need, is thoroughly rooted in the Tanakh. But using the parable to erase all distinctions between covenant community and the wider world goes beyond what the Torah text actually says.

Love Your Enemies
Where the NT Writings Depart from Torah

In Matthew 5:43-44, Jesus says: "Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you."

The first part of that quote, "thou shalt love thy neighbour," is directly from Leviticus 19:18. But the second part, "and hate thine enemy," does not appear anywhere in the Tanakh. YaHoWaH never commanded hatred of enemies. Jesus appears to be quoting a rabbinic interpretation that added "hate your enemy" to the text, not the text itself.

However, the command to love your enemies as a blanket principle also does not appear in the Torah. The Tanakh is far more complex on this point. Psalm 139:21-22 says: "Do not I hate them, O YaHoWaH, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee? I hate them with perfect hatred: I count them mine enemies." The Tanakh does not command you to love those who are enemies of YaHoWaH and His covenant. There is a difference between personal vengeance, which YaHoWaH forbids in Leviticus 19:18, and righteous separation from those who war against YaHoWaH's ways.

This is not a minor point. When someone uses "love your neighbor" to mean you must embrace and affirm everyone without exception regardless of what they stand for, that is not what the Torah says. YaHoWaH commands love for the neighbor and the stranger. He does not command the erasure of all moral and covenant distinctions in the name of universal love.

Practical Application

What Loving Your Neighbor Looks Like Today

The Torah does not leave "love your neighbor" as an abstract feeling. It gives us concrete shape. Here is what it looks like to walk this out today.

YaHoWaH did not hide this command in difficult language or bury it in obscure passages. He placed it right in the middle of an entire chapter dedicated to how His people treat one another. He said it once for the covenant community and again for the stranger. He surrounded it with examples so specific that no one could claim they did not know what it looked like in practice.

Loving your neighbor is not a sentiment. It is not a hashtag. It is not a vague spiritual aspiration. It is a daily, concrete, covenant obligation that shows up in your business dealings, your speech, your finances, your judgments, and your willingness to see the person in front of you as someone YaHoWaH also loves.

He gave it to us. He modeled it Himself. He loves the stranger. He feeds the fatherless. He executes justice for the widow. When He says love your neighbor as yourself, He is not asking you to do something He has not already done.

Vayikra (Leviticus) 19:18
"Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am YaHoWaH."

He said it. Now we live it.

Sarah-Naviah Lewi  ·  Co-Leader, Teacher, Writer, and Publisher